I think Hotrod was spot on when he suggested some 4.10 gears for the 4 cylinder. I would do it but I'm cheap. I actually thought about swapping a tbi 4.3 in cause it would be an easy bolt in swap but I never found one on the cheap. I don't believe the 3.4 60deg has the traditional sbc bellhousing bolt pattern so a trans swap would prob be needed also.
Yeah, my thinking was 4.10 gears since you won't have the torque to get it rolling, so with 4.10's you'll get a torque boost to get rolling and some help holding your highway speed. With a 700r4 or A manual with OD better yet, so you have an OD to compensate for the low gear, even though you might not be able to take advantage of OD very often, but a 700r4 should hold up to a 4 cyl with 4.10's if built right.
You're right, the 60 degree V6s, 2.8,3.1, and 3.4 have a bell pattern of their own. Maybe even the same as like the old 4 cylinder Vega motors. The Buick 231 3.8 is a Buick, Pontiac, Olds bolt pattern, and the Chevy 3.8 that many aren't aware even exists is a Chevy bell pattern. IIRC, like the 4.3 being a 350 with 2 cylinders cut off the back, the Chevy 3.8 is a 305 with 2 cylinders cut off the back.