I tried it in low gear and the same thing. Truck dies. I checked to make sure I had the shift linkage going from column down to the trans and that moves freely. I took it off the trans and manually shifted it without it running you can hear it click into gear and feel when it clicks in. I tried to move it from park slowly with the shift linkage from the column connected and with out applying much pressure and it will go past reverse to neutral or drive. Shouldn't it at least stop at reverse? Or is that just how they normally are? I didn't have much time today and I just was messing and trying easy things.
Yes, it should make a noticable STOP in each gear position. That part that has all the detent stops in it is what I'm referring to as the nickname of Rooster Tail, hence, cuz it looks like a Rooster Tail. There is a detent flat spring with a roller that should engage into each position of the Rooster Tail. If that is missing or broke then you won't feel clicks or stops between gear changes.
Even if you are feeling the stops, if the arm on the Rooster tail is bent, or the S clip from the arm to the manual valve is bent, then your valve body is not getting full flow into its respective ports and passages. Also, it can be setting the manual valve half in one gear and half in another causing the planetaries to be trying to be 2 gears at once.
What has me puzzled though, is even at idle and if in 2 gears at once it should still idle since the converter should stall and keep and gears from engaging. What I"m wondering is if you don't have the wrong converter. You say it's a non lock up trans, but it is a non lock up converter too? I want to say NO, that is not possible. IIRC, the NON Lock up conveter will go on a Lock Up trans, but the Lock Up converter will NOT go on the NON Lock up trans cuz the input shaft is much bigger around.
I'll see if can't dig you up some pics and help you identify the different input shafts and converters. I guess it's possible too if this wing nut that built the trans didn't know WTH he's doing, he many have even put a Lock Up input shaft in a NON lock up trans. Hopefully the guy is smarter than that.