This is exactly why it's critical to be precise in the problem for troubleshooting. So you don't have a hard shift at all. What you have is a late shift. On a Th400, it's only 1 of 3 things. Vac Modulator, or not getting vacuum. Governor and it's possible, during the R&R of the trans, and clean fluid, you may have broke a piece of crud loose and it's hung up the governor, or the kickdown solenoid switch or wiring going to it. Did you maybe pinch the kickdown switch wire in the bell housing on reinstall? To try, just disconnect it from the trans and go for a drive. If that corrected the problem, then you need to trace that wire and fix it. If no change, hook that back up, and take the 4 bolts off the governor cover, pull the governor out, and see if the valve is falling back on the weight. To do this, pointing the plastic gear up to the sky, and hold the weights in, then pull them out and watch the valve in the cylinder if it's moving freely. Whether it is or not, get some carb cleaner and clean out that valve and cylinder best you can. Put it back and go for a drive. If that solves it, then you had junk stuck in your governor. If it doesn't, then the issue IS with the vacuum line and/or the modulator. You shouldn't need a gasket for the governor cover. Just use the same one. They are durable. If it's tears by chance, just use some RTV silicone with the torn gasket. It's not a high pressure spot. You also should not have to drain the pan either to do that. You might lose a 1/4 cup of fluid at the very most, but I'd expect just a few drops.