I haven't run one in my truck (only put about 3k/year on it), but I do run K&Ns in my DD and my wife's. The paper filters KILL the throttle response otherwise. I read all the warnings about the MAF & throttle body damage after running them for several years already. One problem is that people over do it with the oil. Probably because the instructions tell you to coat it with oil until the filter turns back red. I just coat mine very lightly, then let it sit overnight while the oil wicks through the element and evens out. Screw all that spraying oil down every single pleat one at a time. I bend it back a little so the pleats open up, and go over the whole thing. 180k on my last car with a K&N, 78k on wife's, 68k on my current DD and never had the first problem.
That being said, there are a few washable filters on the market now that do not require oiling. One is green, and I think there is a Cool Blue brand that's oil free also. I'm considering converting mine over at some point.