I think we can all share stories about alcoholics. I think all families have them. My dad and 2 of my bros of us 4, are/were alcoholics. I say were becaue 1 bro is now dead. May or may not been alcohol related. He tried to save a lady and her 8yo daughter from raging flood waters, and my bro died trying along with the lady and her daughter. His body was found a week later badly decomposed and a toxicology report was done. Femoral Alcohol level was higher than normal, but we were told, that does not say he was drunk or not at the time of death because of the time lapse and decompositon. Who knows? In most eyes he went out a hero for trying and I'd rather just leave it at that and know his stuggle is over and he for once is at peace with hisself. Now my dads, gunshot accident last weekend... I just knew would be alcohol related. It wasn't. My dad hadn't anything to drink in over 4 days. He controls his drinking. He only does home alone, will not drive anywhere, not even his ATV, and will not touch a gun while under the influence, or even use a power tool like chain saw or riding lawm mower. He knows he is an alcoholic, so he says he does his best to control it and not affect himself, or anyone else, his finances etc. I guess he does OK. He is an ass when he drinks. So I have a deal with him. Don't call me when you been drinking, and if I call and you have been drinking, simply let me know that I might to call back another time.