I got divorced 9 years ago and still bitter !!!
I sure do understand that! I was for a long time myself too. For me it's been so long ago now that it doesn't matter anymore. I wouldn't piss on her to put it out if she was on fire, but I wouldn't set her on fire with a flamethrower now like I might have right after the divorce either! She has no stability, goes from one flavor of the month to the next, and I know she really isn't a happy person in general. So, in reality, she's been her own worst enemy, and makes herself more miserable than anything I could ever think of to do to her. It's Karma at work you know. What comes around goes around. Karla's a bitch, and when it has a litter of puppies, look out! Best advice I can give you is to just let it go! These women like that love nothing better than the attention they get even if its bad. Once you let it go, they really start wondering WHY, and THAT my friend really eats 'em up! ...Joe